What’s all the fuss about?

If you’re perfect…..go ahead and move on from this post. It’s all about someone who’s not! ME! I’m flawed, ya’ll! Some might even say…..a wreck of a person! I do stupid things and I say even stupider things. I just mess up! When it’s most inconvenient too. What is my deal? I might as well confess….right? Here goes!

Tonight was Gates choir concert (I didn’t realize we had to be there until about 5pm). I thought this was an event she was doing for something besides the world to see. I know she said “singing at a basketball game”…but the other part…like a BIG VALENTINE’S CONCERT for our viewing pleasure….um no! Didn’t get that. No biggie, we hopped in the car and raced to the event. It was great! Worth the $8 to see our girl sing five kickin songs.

Hubby makes a comment on the way home that I took as a stab (he wanted to go to the Library and Walmart…I didn’t) and the rest is history! What is it about communication within the marriage relationship? We can be absolutely crazy when it comes to understanding each other. He says, she says…and boom it’s a yelling match. Well, maybe not at your house….but we ended up yelling. I’m sorry for it. Because it got us nowhere….real fast! Just stupid!

He dropped me off and headed for the places he wanted to go…and I caught myself mumbling angrily about the whole situation. Oh the flesh is weak people! That satan…..he wants so badly to crash in on a happy home. I almost let him tonight! But…..I’m onto him. No way, dude! Step off! I love my husband (even if I don’t always agree with him or understand him)! So I’m here to tell ya….don’t get all up in a tizzy when you’re in a misunderstanding with your fella. It won’t end pretty unless you just end it before it starts. Take it from me….I’m learning, ya’ll!

Galatians 5:22 “But the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”

Here’s a little song….I can relate to. I love Coldplay….his voice is beautiful in this song!

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