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Missing: 10 Years of Horror

Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

I had to turn up the television when I heard the reporter tease the story.  What?  Two missing women found after 10 years?  How does this happen?  In Cleveland Ohio?  Who does something so heinous?  As it turns out, three women and a six year-old child were rescued from a home not far from where each went missing a decade ago.

Remember Jaycee Dugard, Elizabeth Smart or Elizabeth Fritzl?  All three were held captive by men who tortured them and robbed them of normal life.  A crime so inconceivable most of us struggle to even imagine it.  In what can only be described as miraculous all three were saved from the horrors of their abductors and now live private lives filled with healing & innocense lost. 

The details of this latest story are still unfolding.  It's safe to say that these women were not being held for anything other than some sick twisted purpose.  The 3 men arrested were brothers who to the outside world appeared to be normal people.  Each of the victims were taken from the same area neighborhood and were being held within 3 miles of the spot from which they went missing.  

So close….. I can't even process it!

This case just boggles my mind and stabs at my heart.  As a mother of 2 beautiful girls….how do you hold onto hope that your missing child is alive?  How can you take your mind to a place that understands the evil of a captor and his wicked plans?  No person can honestly manage such information without going mad themselves.  Perhaps we (through God) are protected from such thinking.  There's no other way to explain it.

For now, we are empowered with knowledge.  Just knowing that something so awful can happen and then seeing the outcome of being found again should give us all hope.  Hope that evil can be overcome. Hope that the lost can be found.  Hope that what someone means for evil God means for good.

How can we protect ourselves and our daughters from such a crime?

1 — Be aware of your surroundings.  Watch who's watching you.

2 — Play it safe.  Don't walk alone and take familiar routes only.

3 — Be prepared to fight.  Never make 2 crime scenes.

4 — Recognize that "weird" feeling. Know when your instincts are telling you to BEWARE!

5 — Always communicate with family/friends your whereabouts.  I don't care if you're 20 years old.  Check in with someone!

6 — Understand there are crazy people who mean harm to others. Don't live with your head in the IT WON'T HAPPEN TO ME sand!

Father,

I rejoice at the news that these women have been found.  Only YOU can heal their heart, mind & bodies.  My prayer is that they would be fully restored and that they would know without a shadow of a doubt that YOU LOVE THEM & SAVED THEM!

Amen

My Senior Prom

Sunday, May 5th, 2013

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I know, I know….I'm too old to be a senior in High School.  But a girl can wish, right?  The cold hard truth is that hubby & I work the prom every year.  He parks sweet cars and I check in all the fancy dressed punks who show up to party.  

This is my long-time table checking partner.  We have it down to a science.  Not really, I just wanted to use some educational words and science sounded uber smart.  However, we do know what we're doing…even if the rules of the game change up a bit.

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This fella was only there for the prom court nomination he was not interested in dancing or partying.  While he waited for the crowning of the new king he found a good spot to relax.  Listen, the prom can wear ya out.

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I loved seeing so many of my students all dressed up.  It's a fact, not one of us will look nearly as spiffy Monday morning.

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Prom court.  What a nice group of juniors!

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More of my students.  Notice the loss of tuxedo clothing…..it gets a little warm on the dance floor.

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This is the first year in a loooooong time that I didn't have a child going to the prom.  My youngest who graduated at midterm this year was not interested in the least regarding prom.  She had been to two in the past and just didn't want to do it again.  I think she thinks she's too old.  Pish posh!  

Less than 1 month until graduation.  I'm hoping she's not the only one moving on…I'm praying it's my senior year too.  Fingers crossed.

 

Lincoln Day Dinner

Thursday, May 2nd, 2013

Or as some would call it… Dinner with the Republican bigwigs. It was a fun night out with these guys–

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It’s fun being a mom to grown up kids who care about politics.

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I love watching them … Enjoy themselves.

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This guy is a governor worthy of respect. I’m grateful for Godly leaders. Governor Mike Pence (R)

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This isn’t too weird is it? Since I didn’t get to meet him personally…this is my only chance of a photo with my Indiana governor. Score!

That’s how I spent my Wednesday night. How about you? Do anything exciting?

Mission Minded

Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

I'm mission minded these days.  Every little task I need to accomplish….I face it with determination & grit.  Maybe it's because I'm staring down the road at age 47!  All I know is that life seems more manageable when I have the attitude of "get it done"!

I think my hubby might be feeling the same way.  He's been beating his body up regularly by doing big house jobs all by himself for the last few months.  He's built flower beds, chopped trees, re-created our pond, demolished and rebuilt a complicated outdoor stairway and still managed to tackle all the other big needs our family has encountered.  Like changing a whole car engine out for our daughter, working on my car & his, and endless yard work.  He's a beast!

It's important to be on mission when tackling jobs otherwise most of us will dwindle down in enthusiasm.  Especially if you are good at finding something much more fun to do (like me).  But what about the mission that God has for you & me?  How determined are you (and me) to fulfill all that He calls us to do?  I admit, there are many days that I totally miss the mark on being USED by God.  I let the world creep in and steal my joy or I just plain out don't do what I know I should when I know I can.

As I'm nearing the end of a long school year (15 more days) I realize how exhausted and burned out I feel.  Perhaps long days with young busy teenagers can do that, huh?  But I'm rejuvenated at the thought of a summer filled with resting back up and doing things that make me feel awesome.  In that, I'd like to focus on a real mission.  A mission that involves reaching out beyond just me & my survival.  So, look out!  I'm getting all geared up — I want to make this summer….MY BEST YET!

TrAnSpArEnT

Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

I'm cursed.  At least that's how it feels sometimes.  I have this problem.  Okay, I have many problems but this one particular problem is a real thorn in my side.  I've tried and tried to change it…..no such luck.  I just live with it and sadly so does everyone who has to be around me.  Sorry, y'all!

I'm too transparent!  Whatever I'm feeling…..everyone around me, knows it.  I can't hide how I'm feeling.  Which can be a little awkward in certain circumstances.  My kids know when something is going down….to split.  For instance, in a store.  If someone is acting inappropriate (like a sales clerk or a screaming child)….it's possible I'll give them a look that says, "GET IT TOGETHER!".  Sometimes, I may even say something like, "Let's get outta here before I say something I'll regret!".

I'm not proud of this problem.  That's why I call it a curse.  Why can't I just be normal?  Why can't I just ignore crazy people and their issues?  I'm sick!  Sick in the people police department.  It's not my business to make people do what's right.  Still, I fret and fume over it when they act nutty.

I don't know where this even comes from other than to conclude that I'm bordering on the edge of prideful and holier than thou.  My heart is janked up.  My own actions embarrass me and then I realize that I'm no different than anyone else when it comes to acting up.  I blunder too.

So, I pray that God would intervene in my brain & heart when I'm tempted to lovingly correct someone or give them a piece of my mind.  I don't want to be that person who wounds with her words or makes others feel like junk just because they're not doing what I think they should be doing.

It's not my job!  It's God who corrects and it's God who expects the best out of His people.  My job is to be His hands & feet and to love with a pure heart.  A heart that's transparent and loving.

What about you?  What's God asking you to admit today that you need to change?

Permission to Fail

Monday, April 29th, 2013

It’s state test time here in Indiana which means lots of pressure on students and staff in the land of education. The state requires high school students to pass this test in order to graduate. So perhaps you can imagine the intensity of emotions…

I count myself very blessed to have kids that not only passed but excelled above the expected scores. They’re smart (like their dad)!

I’ve been thinking about failing lately. Not state tests but regular old life stuff. The things everyone around you pressures you to succeed at whether its important or not. Who cares? What difference does it make in the big picture HOW anyone gets to their dream? The path God has for me (or my children) may not look like yours. And that’s okay!

So, if you are struggling yourself or having a tough time watching your kids scraggle along life’s path… I’m happy to tell you to step back. You have permission to fail and so do they.

Sometimes just knowing the world isn’t going to come crashing down on your head can make all the difference. Success doesn’t look the same for everyone. Especially in the real world!

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Happy Monday peeps! Only 3 more Monday mornings for me. Not that I’m counting… Hehe