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Tuesday, July 26th, 2011

I suppose it was time. Life has gone relatively smooth for most of the summer. Today has turned into one big wing-dinger after another. Starting off my morning with a booming headache, not good. I went to bed feeling a little “anxious” over several issues on my mind. I prayed about them until I finally zonked out only to wake up with the harsh reality that I was stressin’. Boo, to that dude!

My sweet friend in Tennessee invited my family to join her family in Panama City Beach for a week in August. The first problem, we’d have to share a small place together. Now, we are great friends and our kids are too. But anyone with a brain knows squeezing two grown families into one sleeping locale with 1 bathroom is not a setting for comfort AND fun. It would be hairy and honestly…..someone might end up not speaking by the end of the week. Not the best idea, ya’ll.

When I told hubby about the offer….he said, “Is there another room available?”. Good idea, I’ll check into that. The reservation person was gone for the day so I just left a message for her to call me back. (Aren’t you glad you read this blog? Seriously? Who cares about my business, right?) I let my friend know the situation and she mentioned that she left a message too about a cottage possibility. It’s bigger and could be an answer to a more comfy stay.

This morning, I get a call back from the beach (Laguna Christian Retreat) and I tell her why I’m calling and she says—“I have your room reserved already!”. Huh? I didn’t reserve one. Somehow she saved 2 rooms beside each other on the Gulf/beach for both our families. [My friend didn’t ask her to, she must have just done this] We chatted about what costs to prepare for and what to bring, then hung up. I told the kids that we had our own room and that God had reserved it for us—since the camp is FULL.

Wow, God! You’re so cool!

We haven’t had a vacay in 4 summers. It’s not been possible and who has the money to blow partying it up on the beach 11 hours away? Not us, that’s who. This IS NOT a luxury hotel/condo. Like I said, it’s on the beach and used for church camps. We have to bring our own linens and such. Everything is basic. However, we also get a sweet ministry discount. Each night costs us $68 instead the normal rate of $85. Not bad for ON THE BEACH!!! At this point….we’re not the least bit concerned with fancy. It’s the beach and fun with friends that appeals the most.

Now, let me break it down with all that satan threw my way today. 1) the dang headache. 2) Hubby sent me to have my tires checked on my car. She’s been a shakin’. The news? I CANNOT drive said car until I replace 1 for sure but need to change them all! What? Blast it! Of course a belt has broken and it’s dangerous. To replace one (which the guy didn’t agree with) was $160ish dollars. To take care of them all was $570. Aye-yay-yay! (insert more head pounding!)

I WANT TO GO TO THE BEACH!!! [not driving that vehicle-we planned to squeeze into hubby’s car for the journey through the wilderness]

3) We have a dog. No pets allowed at the hotel. (head throbbing again) Time to start dogsitter shopping. Fingers crossed. 4) Ally just started her JOB at TJ Maxx. She’s nervous about asking for a week off already. She needs this job and doesn’t want to seem like a total flake! Oh the stuff to think about.

I’m torn about celebrating until all these little details are handled. Then, I’m jumping on the yahoo wagon and telling the world—-I’M GOING TO THE BEEEEEEEACH!!!

Prayers won’t be wasted here, people! Thanks X’s a million!

Oh and remember that FIRST PAYCHECK? It was left sitting on her dresser and didn’t get deposited this week. Guess who went to the movies and out to eat? The girl who just got charged an overdraft fee in her checking account! Sad day, ya’ll! πŸ™

Full House

Tuesday, July 26th, 2011

My family is back in the normal mode. Everyone sleeping under the same roof. I like it. It gives me a sense of peace. I know I don’t possess any of the members of my family (personally). Each of them belong to God. I’m just pretty thankful that HE shares them with me. For such a time as this.

Gavin made it home from his summer counselor job in Wisconsin. My living room hasn’t looked this junked up since before he left in May/June. It’s baby steps here with the moving back in. His closet/dresser had to be cleaned out (again) so he could put his clothes away. Dude has grown. I managed to share some of his barely worn clothes with someone who can use them. Score!

This weekend is hubby’s last Sunday to interim preach at Bethel Baptist Church. It’s been a great summer sharing our Sunday’s with them and listening to a great preacher. πŸ˜‰ I’m excited about the next step God has for us. The kids will do special music this week too. I love it when they share their gift so willingly. So does God.

I know other mom’s understand what I mean when I say all feels right in my world. Tonight, I’ll sleep with a special measure of comfort knowing all three of my BIG babes are home and in their own soft beds. Ahhh. Sweet dreams, friends! May your own life be filled with the same.

Oh and look who finally got her FIRST paycheck!! Talk about excited…

Zingers

Friday, July 22nd, 2011

It might seem as though I’ve taken to advertising. My last two posts have been about stuff I love; good razors and an awesome magazine. Don’t worry, this isn’t one of those fancy blogs that gets contacted (darn it) by big companies to do rockin giveways (bummer)! It’s just little ole opinionated me. Sharing the love.

I’m a cheapskate kind of girl and love a good deal, on EVERYTHING! Just this morning, I spent 20 minutes bartering back and forth with a representative from my cable (highway flippin robbery) company! Don’t even tell me what you’re paying. I know without a shadow of a doubt–I’M PAYING MORE!!! It’s ridiculous!

I was on a mission to shave my rather large bill down to something I could say outloud and not hear gasps from listening ears (including my own). I also wanted to rid my home of some of the filth offered nightly on my family’s available channels. [Lyn] my representative was very understanding and began removing the fluff, all the while counting outloud each items price. I added them up to be around $47 dollars. When she finished and gave me my new bill it went down a whopping $20! Gasp! Really?

I laughed and mentioned that I’d be doing some cable shopping. Much to her shock, she offered to GIVE me a deal on my HD service for 3 months! Woohoo, right? That’s $7 dollars by the way. So, now my new savings is $27 dollars. How can you beat that, huh? Absurd! Did I mention that I was clear with Lyn that I needed to TRIM MY BILL down to something affordable? She felt I was getting a great deal. Seriously!

I’m still laughing. Another funny thing about this is when I told her I would be shopping (hello, I get better offers all the time in the mail from competitors) around for a bigger savings….she had the gall to tell me that THE OTHER OPPORTUNITIES WOULD BE FOR A LIMITED TIME!!! Haha! To which I mentioned to her that this was the exact same tactic her company had done to win our business in the first place! “Oh!” she exclaimed! πŸ˜‰

Everbody wants a deal, eh?

Aside from my cable woes, I’m on a book mission. I’m searching far and wide for the best deal (or a GIVEAWAY) on a new book I’m wishing for! Laura Ingraham is an amazing lady and I love her smart savvy sense of humor. Her newest book Of Thee I Zing is hot off the presses and I’m loving all the hoopla of it’s content. This lady and I think so much alike. I haven’t bought any books for my nook lately (saving money, remember) but I’m so close to just pushing BUY on my Barnes & Noble page. It’s not at my local library either in book form or ebook. They don’t rush to shelve the conservative stuff. Boo! So, I’ll wait…..patiently to read it.

In the meantime, I’d like to leave you with a few of my own zingers. Stuff that just bugs me about our society.

PAJAMAS–people wearing pj’s as clothes! Why do you wear your pj’s to the grocery store, shopping, around town and to school? They aren’t clothes! It’s TACKY, people!

TATTOOS–on TEENAGERS!! Seriously? How exactly does this idea come into play? Allowing (isn’t there a legal age?) a kid to permanently alter their body forever begs to question parental intelligence. Geez!

Let me know, if you get your hands on Laura’s book and read it. Also stay cool this weekend friends! It’s H O T out there!

All You

Thursday, July 21st, 2011

Do you read this magazine? If you’ve never tried it, buy it now! It is chock full of awesomeness. I love the recipes, beauty advice and wow…tons of coupons and methods for saving money! Who doesn’t need that? Well, some don’t but maybe you’re like me and you do. If that’s the case, you will find something to love in this magazine!

I have been reading it for a while now and everytime I see a new issue….I get so happy! See how easy it is to please me? The people at All You seem to love bloggers too. Many times I’ve been reading on someone’s blog and find them referring to AY or even giving it away as prizes! Love that. Matter of fact, I originally won a year’s subscription through a sweet blog way back when.

Another thing to love about All You is the giveaways. Each month they offer some of the coolest prizes. What’s hot this month? High-tech gadgets! Go, check them out! Click here—-> ALL YOU

And the coolest part of all, is you can get each magazine for as low as $1.66!

I have to run, my newest issue has arrived and it’s calling my name.

[I have not been compensated by All You in any way. I simply love sharing my favorite things and this is one of them! You’re welcome]

Shaved Legs Won’t Make Me Spiritual

Wednesday, July 20th, 2011

I’m not the only one who cringes everytime I pull into the gas pump. It’s been a source of stress for many families. Whether you drive a Toyota or a big SUV like me. It hurts in your pocketbook!

Families are pushed to the limit with their budgets. Groceries have shot up to crazy amounts, electricity & water are higher than we ever imagined paying and razors…..have you bought razors lately? Aye-yi-yi! What in tarnation?

Now I’m not a hairy gorrilla type of person….but geez, I have to shave. My whole family does. Which in my case equals five adults since my kids are pretty much grown in size and physical maturity. We need razors!

Back in the day (yea, here we go!) I’m talking 80’s/90’s folks. I could purchase an 8+ package of Daisy brand pink razors for less than $5 and shave to my little heart’s desire. TMI? Sorry. But seriously, what has the world come to that it costs more for razors than it does to feed a family of 5 at a fast food restaraunt?

The quality is sketchy too. You can’t just pick up the cheapest disposables anymore. You’ll end up with injuries! It’s almost as if the razors that work the best have an addictive ingredient in them. I know, I sound crazy. But this is serious, ya’ll! Shaving = comfort which = sanity! Don’t you agree?

Last week I was over on Angie Smith’s blog (Bring The Rain) and she was “sharing” some of her pet peeves. Girlfriend (love her) was spot-on with many of her quirks (I began to wonder if the two of us had been seperated at birth)! She mentioned trying to sleep without having shaved legs. Impossible! Unlike her, I can force myself to do it–BUT I DON’T WANT TO!!! Gack!

You’re probably asking what is the spiritual connection to shaving? None, really. I just think I’m at my best “personally” when I’m in the best shape hygiene-wise. I feel confident and ready to take on the world. It makes me want to do stuff that I’m hesitant to do other times. Crazy, I know!

So what’s my razor of choice? I’m pretty sweet on Gillette’s Venus Spa Breeze. Once you try them, consider yourself hooked! No going back to the fakes. You’ll find yourself scouring the Sunday ads looking for coupons and sales on the little dudes. It might even make you crank up your prayer life. Kidding! I tease!

Who’s praying for good razors? Duh! Not me! πŸ˜‰

H E A T W A V E

Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

I can’t remember the last time I’ve worn a swimsuit. I don’t have a pool! πŸ™ I don’t have a friend with a pool. I have no life, remember? So swimming and sunning are out. Which totally bums me out. Both of those things make me happy!

I grew up in Florida. I’m a cracker. That’s what people FROM Florida are called. My roots run very deep there. I never imagined living in Indiana. Which takes me back to the pool idea. I have lived without one for the last nine years. Not happily, I should add.

See these trees? And this weird slanted yard?

Yea, no pool here folks!

Today it’s ridiculously hot. People are being warned to stay hydrated and in cool locations. Indiana is included on the dangerous heat index map. I’m sweating right now and I’m inside. Blek! My girls were invited to swim at a friend’s house. They split! I’m home in the a/c. What’s new?

I’d rather be here.

Or here.

Doing this.

Oh and check this place out—-> STILTSVILLE
Looks so awesome!

How are you staying cool today?
(I <3 Pinterest!) Dear Lord Thank you for my home. Because of you I am blessed to live with a/c and many other amenities that other's do not. Complaining about what's missing steals away from the gratitude that I truly feel. I'm sorry. Amen.