Archive for September, 2009

Dreams do come true

Saturday, September 19th, 2009

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I remember back when all I wanted…… was to drive! Oh I would beg my parents……I would plead, “I’ll go to the store for you!!!”. They would inevitably give in and let me go. I was a natural! I was driving from the time I was 10 years old. Yes, I’m from crazy bumpkins and we let our yungin’s drive early! Somebody’s gotta do it! Life in the south is just that way (or so it used to be).

This morning at 9:00 am sharp…..Ally drove off the parking lot of the BMV (also known as….the place regular legal American citizens cannot get business handled on the first trip in) to take her driving test. She has waited so long for this day. But I think she’s ready now. Her 16th birthday was back in March and she’s been anticipating this day ever since. A real driver’s license! Woohoo!

—In Indiana, if you do not participate in the Driver’s Education class (which costs $400) at 15…the teen cannot receive their learner permit until they turn 16. After that time, the driver must hold that permit for another 180 days before taking the actual driver’s test to attain what’s now called the Graduated Driver License.

Soooooooo. SHE PASSED!!!! YAY, Ally!!!!
Congratulations!!

Excitedly….leaving on her first alone trip (with her sis of course!)
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Thumbs up! She’s heading to check out her parking spot at JCHS
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Bye Bye…..another piece of my heart! 🙂
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Now the dream is almost complete. Her fantasy of her own car is what she now focuses on. We would love to provide her with that…..but it’s just not in our budget. We know that God can do anything. So, Lord…..if there’s a way, we leave that to you!

NOTE: I wasn’t driving to the store at 10 years old. I was driving some form of vehicle out on family property and country roads. Please don’t feel as if I were part of some sort of “deliverance” type family. I assure you, I was raised by good people. We just learned to drive early back then. 😆

She’s got class

Friday, September 18th, 2009

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I’ve been so excited all day!  I have good reason to be.  Ally performed with Touch of Class for the first time during today’s Pep Rally!

She was on the back row.  You can barely see her….but she’s dance partner’s with the big guy in the light blue shirt.  I thought they were great!  The school loved it too.

I can’t wait for many more performances to come.  She’s been working so hard and this is her first year.  It’s all new….and she’s trying to find her place in the group.  That’s not always easy.

The pep rally was a huge success as well.  She was on the team that put it all together and did an outstanding job!  Way to go Ally!  What a busy week you’ve had.

Good luck tomorrow on your driver’s license test…. 9:00am on a Saturday.  It better be worth it, huh?

LOVE, MOM

Happy Anniversary!!

Wednesday, September 16th, 2009
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Don and Wanda on September 16th 1989

Twenty Years ago today I was a nervous wreck! I was marrying the girl of my dreams and I was terrified she thought she had made a mistake in agreeing to marry me! I remember seeing you walk toward me– I was overwhelmed by your beauty. Then I noticed the tears in your eyes. . . (and the bug crawling around in your vale) and I thought you really might say no to that all important question, “Do you. . . ?” When you said “I Do” I was the happiest man in the world! I had you then and I was never going to let go!!! Little did I know. . . Ever heard the phrase “. . . tiger by the tail?”

I have learned over the years that when you said I Do you really meant it. Your commitment to our marriage is a shining example to wives everywhere. In our paper each week they publish a list of couples who have filed for divorce. Honey, you know the real reason I get so aggravated about those people who file for divorce after ten, fifteen, or twenty years of marriage? The real reason is that if two people as flawed as we are can last twenty years, then ten for them should be a cake walk! Thanks for sticking with me through it all!

You have spent the last twenty years putting your needs and wants to the side to let the needs of the rest of us come first. From caring for our children to allowing me to follow a pretty strange career path you were willing to play a superb second fiddle! (Well, except for that time you just had to have that convertible VW. I told you it was a bad idea!)

You being the woman you are makes me a better man. You being the mother you are makes me a better father. You being the wife you are makes me a better husband! Thanks for loving me for all these years. . . Actually, thanks for making me feel loved for all these years! I look forward to many more!

Happy Anniversary Honey!

Don

Represent

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

Since I’m a mom of three teenagers……I pay attention to what’s going on out in the world. In the popular world! More often than not….I am disgusted by what celeb’s do and say for the world to hear. I’m not stupid….but I will never get over the complete lack of class and manner’s. It appears the raunchier and nastier one behaves, the bigger the reward (financially and fame wise). It’s a twisted concept for me.

Our society pays huge money to these people. The rapper’s, musicians, actor’s…..reality tv personalities all of these folks represent something. There was a time that being in the spotlight gave you certain responsibilities. It was expected of you to behave in an honorable way. You didn’t reveal very personal or offensive things about yourself. It was considered taboo. That’s just not how it is anymore. We are living in a society that wants to take it up another notch. So many want to create the biggest shock…..just for the fame of it.

Over the weekend…the big talk on all the news channels was the melt-down on the tennis court by Serena Williams. Anybody who wanted to hear or see could tune in and listen to her drop the “F” bomb and argue her innocence to the judges on tv. She later concluded that she is a passionate person…..and she was a little out of control. Here is the latest on that event. I wonder what her life would be like if she were that passionate for Christ?

On Sunday night, during the popular VMA awards…..Kanye West revealed to the world (again) that he has absolutely no ability to control himself. His now very famous interruption of Taylor Swift’s yeehaw moment has been played over and over for the world to see. Who is getting all the attention? Yea, Kanye! Twisted, huh? He is a disgrace! I wouldn’t give him a penny of my money…..by buying anything he has his name on. But that isn’t how the rest of our world sees it. People will defend him (remember he was swigging down his drink of choice)and say, “Oh he was just drunk!”. Which brings me to another point…….WHY ARE THESE PEOPLE BOOZING IT UP FOR THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE?????

In most public places….it is not appropriate nor legal to walk around with a bottle of liquor in your hand like it’s a Polar Pop! What in tarnation, people? Again, he will only reap benefits of more popularity and laughs for his ridiculous behavior. He may be criticized here and there….but do you think the producer’s/music companies are going to drop him? No. They’re not going to do anything to hold him accountable. Twisted! Really….it’s twisted!

I can’t talk about these famous people without reflecting on my own mistakes as well. I too, fall short and goof up. Maybe I don’t have my crazy splattered on Fox News or Entertainment Tonight….but I display it for my whole family to see on a regular basis. It’s a real shame too. They are the people I want to impact the most for Christ….yet I fail repeatedly. How can I choose to speak and behave in a way that honors Christ? By practicing it daily…..by staying in contact with my Lord and filtering all I do and say through Him. Easy to say….not always easy to do. I’m human!

Jesus,
I want to represent you in a way that brings you honor. Life isn’t always easy….and it’s up to me to choose to do what’s right even when things feel out of control. Help me to be more like you….tame my flesh and create in me a pure heart. Let my words be few and let them be sweet like honey. Forgive me for the many times I’ve let you down with my words and actions. I’m sorry.
Amen.

Homecoming week (Twin Day)

Monday, September 14th, 2009

Every year my high school gets rowdy for the entire week of Homecoming. Anybody who wants to get in the spirit may play along and participate in the fun activities. Last night, my co-worker…Betsy (she’s the Librarian) sent me a message to wear my white shirt and jean capri’s! Umm, ok! You don’t need to tell me twice! Anything with the word JEANS in it…..I’m all over girlfriend!

So….here we are!

Twins……clearly

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I will never forget

Friday, September 11th, 2009

I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing when tragedy struck our country. I was getting ready for my first day teaching ladies Bible study at my little country church in Indiana. My husband was in Louisville attending seminary. He commuted the hour drive into Kentucky four days a week back then. I was listening to Klove while doing my make-up. The DJ’s were shaken relaying the news that something was very wrong in New York. I clicked on Fox news and there I saw the devastation for myself.

Within minutes of turning on my tv….the other building was struck right before my very eyes…live. I cannot tell you the fear and helplessness I felt. I literally dropped onto my bed and cried. I couldn’t imagine what was happening to my world. Who? Why? What is going on?

I immediately called my husband’s cell (something I never did). He told me they were aware of something going on…..but had no idea why. He tried to console me and assured me he would be home very soon. I still had to go to church….even with my mind reeling with worry. It was all surreal.

I’ve watched the footage over and over of that day. It never changes the feelings in my heart. I cringe and hurt every single time. I can only say…..why? What would make someone think that is the right thing to do? I trust God that He is our ultimate judge and know that no matter what we do here on this earth…..we all stand before Him, someday!

I will never forget….