If You Are Voting For So & So, I Will Attack You With My Words

October 13th, 2016

The closer we get to election day, the meaner we seem to become as voters. Frankly, I’m over it. I don’t click on any links posted on social media. Not the Christian ones and certainly not the hate-filled, mudslinging ones either. They all say the same things and they all want to do exactly what they are doing, cause more division and ugliness.

To which I say….

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No amount of arguing back and forth is going to make any of this better. The opinions are so ramped up and the cruelty coming from people who seemed to be level-headed or nice folks or even “friends” has turned full on vengeful.

What has happened to us?

I’m sorry, but….I’m not interested in slapping each others faces with hurtful words over the election of one or the other Presidential candidates. Both have tremendous faults. Both have much to be disgusted over. Both are pathetic choices. Fighting over why we’re voting for one or the other isn’t helping any of us become better people. Matter of fact, I’ve seen more hate on social media and heard more vitriol from people who I thought were decent humans than I care to admit.

I love America. I love my country. I love politics. But, this election has felt like a sucker punch to the face from the get-go. I’m discouraged, I’m disgusted and I’m just trying to make it through the next few weeks.

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Maybe you’ve been on the receiving end of someone’s attacks over who you’re voting for, eye-opening…huh? It doesn’t feel good to be shouted down or to be “put in your place” by another. That’s why I just can’t even bother. The rudeness and the hate have worn me down.

I don’t want to argue over Hillary or Donald. So, don’t come at me with your opinion. It won’t be welcomed here. You do you. I’ll do me. And we’ll all be okay. Keep your very educated and researched opinion to yourself.

And for God’s sake, stop beating up on anyone who doesn’t agree with you. It’s not your job! I’ll leave you with a few important questions:

Are you satisfied with your behavior during this election season? When it’s all over (and trust me, it is almost over) will you be able to hold your head high knowing that what you’ve said to or about other people is honorable in the eyes of God?

When the votes are tallied and the winner announced….we still have to live together and sit beside one anther at church, games and the grocery store. Keep watch over your words & actions. While God has given us freedom to use our voices, there will always be consequences for what we say.

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Pybus Market

September 27th, 2016

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Here in the great city of Wenatchee…. you can visit Pybus Market and shop your heart out for fresh everything: flowers, baked breads, meats, veggies, apples, pears — dream it up. They will probably have it.

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The choices are endless.

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I really couldn’t take my eyes off the flowers.

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My people, they were on a mission.

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I was wandering around doing touristy things.

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Imagine my surprise when I found out the big celebration of the weekend was the DALIA BLOOMS! I just happened to have planted a few beds of Dalia’s this year and have loved watching them grow.

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These were great…but, really? I could be some sort of winner too! (Ahem, or my hubby. He stuck my bulbs in the spots I picked)

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Oh me and my yard!!

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The place was full of these jokers. I’m seriously feeling cockypants over my own Dalia gardens. Dudes!

MINE —>>
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Out & About in Wenatchee Washington

September 26th, 2016

We’ve done a bit of exploring, as tourists tend to do.

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My hubby has been chomping to take my car somewhere dangerous and climb where no man can go. (Ahem, no….I’m not ready to let my car be a victim of an accident! Remember: the new drone?)

So, we did a little climbing up at Yoyo Rock on the Columbia River in Wenatchee.

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I know….I see boobies, not a yo-yo. But, hey…whatev’s man!

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We took our fellow explorers with us.

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The weather was truly glorious!

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We had a tailgate picnic while we watched some boaters do a little fishing! They were catching salmon, wall-eye, bass and something I can’t remember. I only recall being a lot jealous! Reminded me of our Canada fishing trip.

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The water is icy cold and clear as glass.

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Of course we did some kissin’!

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And some jumpin’!

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The days are dwindling down. We have a few more places to check off our list before we leave to head back to Indiana. Traveling has a way of opening up your mind to dreams of living other places. For me, I think Montana would work. My hubby? Likes Idaho. Hrmph!

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St Regis, Montana’s view!!

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I D A H O! Okay, it was an 80mph snap of the state sign…but, still. I believe Montana has all the pretty trees.

Road Trip 2 0 1 6

September 22nd, 2016

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Instead of taking off on a romantic anniversary vacation…my hubby and I loaded down our car with camping gear, cameras, hot & cold weather clothing and a bunch of stuff WE MIGHT NEED and hit the open road.

Starting point (Saturday) – Indianapolis, Indiana

Final destination (Wednesday) – Wenatchee, Washington

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We had no agenda. Just to go, see and do whatever the heck we wanted to do.

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The weather all along the journey was P E R F E C T!

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Day 1 we made it to Onawa Iowa and plopped down our tent beside a beautiful lake. No power, no water….but lots of mosquitoes! No problem. I can go without, a little. Just not showers! The campground had a nice shower house that I headed straight for the next morning.

Imagine the irony after my shower when I plugged in my hair dryer and blew the breaker to the whole bathroom. I had to go OUTSIDE and plug in to dry my hair on the porch of the main building. Oh and use my curling iron with no mirror on the porch. I made so many new friends there.

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Who can think of doing up a smart hair-do with all these views??

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Old Faithful didn’t disappoint. We arrived just in time to have lunch and walk outside to see him blow his stack!

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I didn’t get much sleep in Wyoming. I’m blaming it on the fact that we camped in the very last spot where they allow tent camping because of bears. Therefore, I slept with one eye open listening all night long for my impending death by bear attack!

I woke up exhausted!

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My dude just snored on through the night.

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Yellowstone National Park was fabulous! Beautiful scenery, incredible animals….amazing cool weather. Gorgeous!

We came to the conclusion though that wherever we picked to stop, the crowds seemed to follow. It would get crowded and we would peel out for the next spot!

On our adventure we drove through Indiana, Illinois, Iowa, South Dakota, Wyoming, Montana, Idaho and Washington. Oh my word! I can’t wait to do it again! This land is so beautiful!

In the meantime, I am so excited to be in Washington with family. While I’m not thankful for an unemployed husband – I am very grateful for this free time to explore, think, pray and strategize our next step.

Road Trip 2016!! Rolling on, friends!!

It’s Our Day, Again

September 16th, 2016

It’s September 16th.

The day in 1989 that we did this.

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Who knew we’d still be at it 27 years later?

Oh, I kid. We knew, otherwise….why else would we have plunged into marriage at 22 years old with nothing between us but an old Chevy Cavalier and an S-10 truck?

Kids, we had nothing. Just cars. No house, no furniture, no STUFF and certainly no cellphones!

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I’d hop in an old 80’s style limo with you all over again, babe!

Nobody could tell us a thing, we wouldn’t have listened any way. From day one, we’ve bit off more than we could chew and paid triple what anything cost….but we did it our way.

Two head strong first-born leaders – pushing, forcing and insisting on getting the last word. Over & over & over again.

Still, here we are…alive, in love and looking forward to every moment together. That’s real love.

I am so thankful you didn’t kick me to the curb and that I never choked you out and watched your eyes pop out of your head. (sorry for the graphic description of my passion for you)

WE BELONG TOGETHER!!! Two crazies livin’ on love.

I love you. Happy 27th anniversary, true love!

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Something’s Wrong

September 13th, 2016

I’ll just go ahead and say it, something is very wrong in this country! Today, September 13th. Right now. This very minute. Wrong, wrong, wrong. The worst part? It’s only going to get more ridiculous.

I love NFL football! Ask my kids, I scream my head off during every Colts game. I’m a sold out fan! However, I cannot wrap my brain around the garbage allowed and celebrated while another player is punished for wearing game cleats honoring 9/11.

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What is happening to our country?

IT’S NOT SPECIAL TO BOYCOTT AN AMERICAN TRADITION.

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It’s ignorant! It’s disrespectful! It’s enough to make a person hate watching the NFL at all.

It’s no wonder we’re in the current state we find ourselves in as a country.

Here in Indianapolis, Colts player Pat McAfee is a force to reckon with. The man works tirelessly for causes up and down the spectrum of need. He is a man on a mission. He maneuvers his fame as an NFL player to make great things happen for people who never stand a chance. He is the real deal!

Which is why I’m harping on this whole debacle of celebrating a real cool joker who kneels in protest during the national anthem while another guy is fined and punished for honoring the people who died on the most tragic September day in our country.

See, something’s wrong here.

I watched last night as the camera guys stayed locked on Colin Blahblahnick and his fellow comrade during the national anthem. The amazing military jets flew over, cameras focused on the two buffoons kneeling down. A talented young woman (Lindsey Stirling) played her heart out on the violin, the cameras zoomed in on Thing 1 and Thing 2. Military personnel held & waved a giant flag, the cameras again, focused on the two dummies protesting all things America. Then, the cameras pan over to other players holding up their fists in black power poses and the ESPN announcers praise Kaepernick as thoughtful and how wonderful he is for opening up this “discussion”.

What?

He isn’t to be praised. He isn’t helping stop racial divide. He isn’t making a point that is in any way propelling America to a better place. He is smearing his crap all over the good and solid parts of our country and the media is lapping it up like thirsty dogs.

I feel sorry for people who think like him. He is believing a pack of lies. You would think our country would be at its finest hour with a black President – but the truth is, we are more racially charged up and divided than we’ve been in a long time. Is President Obama to blame? I don’t know. I do know that he has done an enormous amount of damage to push the agenda in the wrong way.

I’m sick of the whole scene. I will never mistreat anyone because of their color. I also won’t be a guilty party simply because I’m a white lady in a land where injustice has occurred. Every single person has a responsibility to behave in a way that honors God and country.

Something’s wrong. Are you a part of the problem or the solution?

love anoter