Pinter-aholic

August 25th, 2011

Look, I can’t be held responsible for your downfall if you get yourself all mixed up with Pinterest! I’ve got my own problems, mm’k? Seriously, I’m not even a “real” pinner. I just sneak in and lounge around for hours like I have nothing else important to do.

Don’t judge me. I’m a sick person and I can’t help it. πŸ˜‰

Look at some of the wonderful things you can find there—–>

I want a house that has this kind of room. Don’t you?

Isn’t he sweet? My Ally is in mad love with owls right now. I must admit, they are awfully cute.

Oh Gee, look who it is. Edward. I’ve missed you, dude. See you in November.

See what I mean….so many funny sayings to crack me up. I especially like the ones that use scripture. Whoever submits them, thank you.

I’m going to stop now because I believe that I may be a candidate for a true Pintervention. I’ve stayed up AGAIN way too late thanks to Pinterest and now I’ll suffer for it. Somebody stop me!

Dear Pinterest Inventor,

I LOVE YOU! Don’t ever go away! And don’t listen to any legal threats you may receive from my family. They don’t mean it. Promise.

You Can Fly

August 24th, 2011

These days I’m face to face with the reality that my mothering opportunities are nearly complete. Not that I will stop being a mother, only that I will not be in the position to train them any longer. They’re grown and there’s not much I can do about it.

So, I reflect.

It’s important that I’ve covered some basics with each of them as I slowly cut them from my mama apron. From the moment I was told about them I prayed for their salvation. I’m thankful for all three of my kids’ decision to follow Christ. It makes my heart swell….God’s grace is so lavish, huh? Trust me, I am an example of it.

Teaching them to love outside of themselves has been an important task. I know just how easy it is to love self. Jesus taught repeatedly about loving other’s. I believe that’s a quality that will outlast many others. I pray….each of them will always love those God places in their path.

Can they do what they need to do in life? Have I given them wings to fly? It may sound crazy but what if I skipped this part? What if I prepared them for heaven and loving others but didn’t give them courage to fly high?

If you’re like me (a mom) and you’re wondering what else should be on your to-do list while raising your kids. Here’s a little something to ensure your kids will have a license to fly.

–Love without boundaries. Don’t just say you love them, show it. Never be jealous or selfish with it.
–Don’t manipulate. If you want your kids to do something, ask. Let them know you have a need but don’t force them to be perfect.
–Practice a good attitude. Instead of being critical, bite your tongue!
–Trust God & them that they have what it takes to fly. Really, trust Him.

Lord,
You are the ultimate example to follow. Help me to teach my children your qualities. Let my thoughts be pure and my heart be righteous in every example I lay before them. I pray for them to fly with the faith that comes from knowing you.
Amen

My Achy Head

August 23rd, 2011

Ever have one of those days….where you feel like your head may explode? Well, I’ve been having one for the last 4 days. My sinus’ and throat are working against me. It’s apparent that the two of them have serious plans to destroy anything good and happy about my work week.

I’m totally miserable!

If you have a magical treatment that doesn’t involve taking antibiotics….let me know. I’d be willing to give it a try. At this point, I’d even get crazy and attempt to use a NetiPot.

See? Mama is stuffed up and aching!

Hope this pretty almost fall day (wherever you are) is amazing. Remember, this is the day that the Lord has made…let us rejoice and be glad in it. Even with a sinus infection and a sore throat! πŸ˜‰

No looking back

August 22nd, 2011

It’s that time. In just a few hours my girl begins her college days. Even though she’ll be living at home this first year (or semester) it’s still a big deal. I remember my own walk onto new school turf way back when. My commute was over an hour, hers won’t be quite that long. Still, it was scary and new–so I felt anxious.

She hasn’t mentioned any of that yet. I’m assuming that since her big brother is going to take classes at the same school with some of the same classes…she’s feeling ok with everything ahead. That could be pretty comforting, huh?

I’m really excited for her. It’s a new step towards her future that I know she’s happy to take. God has been pretty lavish with blessing our family especially when it comes to college and costs. Soon, she will be getting a car (hello, school loan!!) and then her freedom will feel real. Go girl!

My prayers are that she will find what it is she’s looking for. I know what it’s like to be her age and clueless about what you want out of life. I was stumbling around myself back then. Now that I think I have my dream figured out….I have to stumble even more to make it happen. But God…He knows just what she needs and me too.

Do you remember being 18 and facing the future? How’d you handle it? Did your dreams come true? Has life gone the way you imagined? It’s been a complete surprise for me. I’m so glad I surrendered my life to Him. By far, the best decision I’ve ever made.

Here’s to you Ally. Live your dreams, girl! I will always be here cheering you on. Lead…..in everyway.

Move Ya, Movie!

August 18th, 2011

Last summer, I checked out a book from the library that I noticed a few other bloggers talking about. I’m not a huge fiction fan, really. Call me a book snob….I don’t mind. So, I didn’t give it much hope to be anything special. Matter of fact, I thought surely I’d ditch it after a few chapters of it’s fiction nonsense make-believe!

Truth is. I COULD NOT PUT IT DOWN!

I cried, I laughed. I tried to do my housework and life. But this book….it wouldn’t let me put it down (for long)! I think I finished it in just a few days. It was by far one of my favorite reads in a long time. Recently, I read that the author {Kathryn Stockett} was turned down 66 times by publishers before she found someone to take a chance on her little book about maids in Mississippi!

Girlfriend! God bless you!

I’m not sure if you can even imagine my excitement when I saw the first advertisement of THE MOVIE?!!! Holy Batman….I may have even squealed! All summer I’ve patiently waited for it to hit the theatre. It happened to debut while I was at the beach. Everyone encouraged me to go while I was there but I knew it was something I needed to do after I made it back home.

I’m so glad I did.

This last Saturday (the end of my summer break weekend) hubby and I were out grocery shopping when he said….”Let’s go see your movie!”. It didn’t take me long to hand that mixed greens salad mix back to the cashier and run out of Sam’s Club. We even swung by Coldstone Creamery on our way to the movie (I mean, if you’re going to live it up…..do it right!).

All I can say is GO SEE IT!!!! GO GO GO!

Oh and let me know….if you wanted to slap Miss Hilly as badly as I did? I’m still cringing! This will definitely be in my top list of favorite movies. It’s going to be a big deal. Just wait and see. πŸ˜‰

Reality or Not

August 17th, 2011

Why is there such a fascination in our country to watch reality shows? What does it say about us as people? It seems the edgier the participants of the show the more popular they are. Uhh, hello Jersey Shore! Most of these shows are filled with nudity, heavy drinking and no big deal hooking up! We the cable paying public keep these people going.

Sad, huh?

I’m not trying to be a bonafied fuddy-dud, really. I love to watch tv. Matter of fact, my whole family would rather stay home and hog up tv time than do most anything else. Lame! We like being home and tv is crucial to the mix. I tend to watch the same stuff just not on a regular basis. Reality shows aren’t part of that lineup either. Except, I have been known to watch the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, New Jersey, & Orange County. Just not regularly.

Yesterday, I read the sad news that a husband from RH of BH committed suicide. The story is so sad. These are real people with real lives and real problems. Maybe we watch them because it’s an escape from our reality. We size up their problems and compare ours to theirs then justify our behavior based on what we see them do. Never have I heard anyone profess Christ on either of the shows or act like they have a relationship with God. Usually it’s just trainwreck petty behaviors riddled with shallowness and snobbery.

But–we watch anyway! πŸ™

I’ve broken my own arm patting myself on the back (in my sick self-righteousness) regarding the many raunchy reality shows I DON’T watch. Yea, I’m one of those Miss Goody-Two-Shoes! If I think it’s sleazy and disgusting (Uhh, hello again…Jersey Shore) I refuse to watch it. See how I manipulate my own mind into believing I’m holding onto my holiness? Twisted, that’s me.

This latest sad truth reminds me that parading your life before America can end in tragedy. Families fall apart (mmm, Jon & Kate), privileged children run wild (mmm, Hulk Hogan’s kids), rich girls have no respect for common people (err, Paris & Nicole) and sadly….true love isn’t found in a tv matchmaker series (oh Bachelor/Bachelorette)! Real life doesn’t deserve to be exploited for money.

Tell me….do you think reality shows are harmless? Or am I being too harsh and judgemental?

“Create in me a pure heart O God and renew a right spirit within me” Ps 51:10