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Who Shrunk My Junk

Monday, October 10th, 2011

Remember how I posted recently about eating healthy and getting physical?  Yea, I experienced a big slap in the face this morning when I had to iron four different things to wear to school.  Everytime I picked something else out to wear…..sadly, it didn’t fit when I attempted to put it on.   🙁

Sad day, baby!

My lack of planning almost made me really late for school too.  So not only did I feel utter failure but I was zinging around on rush adrenaline!  Not cool!  It doesn’t help that I stayed up too late, again.  I say it every morning–I’m going to bed early tonight!   Just you wait and see.

I’m also planning to jog home from school and to the grocery store.  Kidding.  But that’s what I deserve after my morning reality check.  Why is it so hard to live a disciplined life?

At my small group meeting last night, we spent some time discussing the fuzzy line many Christians find acceptable to live with.   Reading Facebook can tell you a lot about a person’s lifestyle.  Unfortunately, everyone doesn’t hold the same values while calling themselves followers of Christ.

A concern for each of us — how our kids view what they see these folks saying and doing.  It’s confusing to young people when they see adults doing things that are sketchy all while in leadership positions in church.  Kids are looking to adults for boundaries and examples.  If you and I are careless with our witness it puts our kids (and other’s that we may influence) at risk for a superficial relationship with God.  Or worse yet, no relationship with Him.

Lord,

I need your conviction on my life, everyday.  I recognize just how easy it is to do or be whatever I want.  As your child, I see that my choices affect those around me.  I want to be an influence for other’s to follow YOU.  The world has enough followers and it burdens my heart.  Help me TO LIVE OUT LOUD for all to see YOU in ME especially my kids!

Amen

Stairway To Heaven

Saturday, October 8th, 2011

This is my life today. I typed up a funny little story to go with my staircase pictures but WordPress ate it. So, here’s what we’re doing at my house on this gorgeous fall day.

Yesterday’s room clean-out just wasn’t labor enough for me….I had to go and get hubby all worked up over the staircase! It’s only been a thorn in our side since the day we moved in July 2002. Just about everyone who’s ever visited us has taken a tumble down these stairs.

They are a custom built nightmare!

So, we’re off to the hardware store to drop some moola on the basics that it will take to spruce them up and make them a little safer!

PS
I’d like to add that while I love my house…..the repairs to a custom built house from 1965 are costly and never standard. Hence the “custom” in the name! NEVER, NEVER WILL I BUILD A HOUSE WITHOUT FOLLOWING SOME GUIDELINES. Nothing ever fits. 🙁

But….it’s solid! 🙂

DON’T LOOK ETHEL

Friday, October 7th, 2011

If you’re over the age of 40…you know just who I’m quoting! But I’m not talking about The Streak this morning. Oh no, I’m throwing myself right out there on the TRANSPARENT WAGON for all the world to see.

My kids! The ones who live in my home. They just might be animals. Thanks to some little problem with my computer (I’m SERIOUS, ya’ll) the pictures will not load onto my post. So there goes my transparency! 🙁

Who wants to show their dirty piles of laundry and messy rooms online with The Nester out there in bloggy land? Oh she’d never see, right?

Just know that I’m eyeball high in laundry from the three bedrooms at the other end of my hallway. I thought I’d be nice and do some “cleaning” since I’m home with one of my babes today. She’s been holed up in bed for several days thanks to a [pulled muscle] by way of a sweet fall at school (college).

I’m rethinking my thoughtfulness.

So instead of my REVEALING photos, how about a walk down memory lane?

I pray your Friday & weekend is filled with fun and blessings!

Oh look what works now. –DO NOT JUDGE–

Bedroom of a college dude.

I think I’ve bitten off way more than I can chew…

I Am Not Afraid

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

I’m overwhelmed with “stuff” today. I suppose we all have these days at some point or another. I could use some encouragement. So, I’m going to zip it for your sake.

Prayer and God’s grace are my biggest need right now. If you can spare a bit…it won’t go wasted here. I hope to be back on top of my game soon.

Really, that’s how I’m getting through today. Pathetic, huh?

But I know better! Don’t you?

I know WHO IS IN CONTROL! So, if you’ll excuse me….I’m off to get over it!

S M I L E

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

It’s been a long time coming.  Something like 3 years, I suppose.  All I’ve heard about– is this day!

This cute kid…takes her appearance seriously.

Sometimes, things don’t go as planned. (Boo, retainer that didn’t fit!)

But that’s ok because LOOK HOW PRETTY your teeth turn out…when you stick with your orthodontist and follow the rules.

After enduring molds for NEW new retainers….We celebrate with a little BLING and some Steak-N-Shake!

I’m so proud of your beautiful new smile, Gates. You’ve been a devoted patient and a serious diva all at the same time. I know how hard it is to wait for something so special. The way you look today shows all the sacrifice was worth it! Congratulations, girl!

YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL!!

A special THANK YOU to the greatest Orthodontist and Staff, Dr. John Hiester at American Family Orthodontics in Seymour, IN. We’ve been hanging out there regularly for the last eight years or so. Because of your special talent we have 3 beautiful smiles to look at everyday. Gavin, Ally & Gates enjoyed being your patients….even when it hurt! 😉

Just Do It

Tuesday, October 4th, 2011

I’ve had a very interesting discussion with my son tonight.  After a little rant (me venting my frustration) about a certain high school student NOT doing class assingments, he explained to me her thinking.  Which is good, I suppose.  Because, otherwise I envision laziness and irresponsibility to be the problem and that makes me crazy mad!

I’m driven, hardworking and obnoxiously anal about EVERYTHING!!  Can you tell?

I suffer from a sick inability to ‘loosen up and let live’ around my house.  I wish for my people to be the best they can be and if they’re slacking…..I feel success slipping away and I hate it!  I guess it’s all psychological for me.  I wasn’t allowed to be lazy or neglectful and  I was scared of consequences.

I wanted to please.  I still do.

I don’t think I’ll ever understand the ADD mind.  No matter how long I’m surrounded by them….I’m just not wired to get it.  Luckily for them (and me) God doesn’t need me to understand it.  That’s not my job.

For such a time as this…..He has placed these people in my life and trusted me with their hearts.  What I do with them is up to me.  So, instead of beating them up with my frustration and harsh words–I think I’ll choose to BUILD THEM UP & REMIND THEM JUST HOW AWESOME/UNIQUE THEY ARE!

Just the way GOD made them to be.

Lord,

I’m sorry for the pressure I put on my loved ones.  Help me to focus on what is most important, YOU!

Amen